Dining etiquette in China, whether it be a friendly dinner or a formal business meeting, is built on strong traditions and culture that may seem that all you need is to understand the use of your chopsticks.
Here are some tips to help you survive at Chinese dining:
You have to dress properly and arrive on time
Dressing well will giving the impression to your host as it makes your host understand that you feel that the invitation is very important and expressive.
Introduce yourself
If this is your first time having a dinner with Chinese, then it is very important for you to begin your first introduce with the most respected person in the room.
Seating arrangements are based on seniority
The guest of honor will usually sit facing the entrance, followed by the second most important person. If the guest of honor is not seated, other are not permitted to sit there. This may seem quite different from what you experience back home.
Ordering food will be taken care by the host
Normally, the host would ask you if is there any food you prefer to eat or any dietary restrictions. So that the host can prepare accordingly.
Chinese dining utensils
On a traditional Chinese dining table there is always a tea cup, bowl, and small plate, together with chopstick and a soup spoon. Generally, small plates often use for placing bones, or other inedible parts that need to be removed from your mouth.
Drinking in China
Honored guests should not pour wine themselves. Don't forget to express sincere gratitude when your glass has been filled. When someone toasts to you, stop eating and accept the toast. If the person is standing, you should stand also.
When to start your dinner
If the guest of honor has not started eating, it is considered impolite for other to begin. Wait until the senior have given the signal. You will notice when it is time to eat.
Paying the bill
Splitting the bill doesn't exist in Chinese culture either. If you are invited, you may offer to pay but understand that you will not be allowed to, just thank them kindly at the end before leaving.
So, above are the tips to survive on your first dinner with Chinese. Eating and drinking in China can be mind-broadening and enjoyable cultural experience. However, don't be embarrassed by using chopsticks poorly. The main thing is, that you enjoy the foods and Chinese culture.